00:47:39 <gemelen> jfqd1: (just a suggestion, also not sure if the ruby in question is built with or without it) have you tried it with jemalloc?
06:51:05 <jperkin> everything in pkgsrc is built with libumem, unless something snuck past my wrappers
06:54:26 <jfqd1> jemalloc: no I tried without jemalloc, will try :-)
06:56:12 <jperkin> if you want to start drilling down a bit then approaches like https://www.perkin.org.uk/posts/reducing-ram-usage-in-pkgin.html can help you identify where the memory is being allocated from, especially if you diff it against earlier versions
07:06:25 <jfqd1> Thx Jonathan, will try it!
07:06:51 <jperkin> I'm no expert, I'm sure there are better approaches, but it helped me figure some stuff out
07:10:01 <jfqd1> no expert either, but dtrace is so helpful, will give it a try!